The Own Your Life™ Method
You weren’t meant to just survive — you were meant to rise.
The Own Your Life™ Method is my signature 1:1 coaching approach for women who are ready to reclaim their voice, rebuild their identity, and rise into a life they actually feel aligned with — emotionally, energetically, and unapologetically.
This isn’t about surface-level mindset hacks. It’s deep. It’s strategic. It’s soulful. And it’s designed to walk you from breakdown to breakthrough — with clarity, compassion, and bold transformation.
🌿 The 4 Stages of the Own Your Life™ Method
1. The Reset
Regulate your nervous system, reconnect with your body, and create emotional safety from the inside out.
We begin by identifying the patterns keeping you in survival mode — emotional chaos, people-pleasing, high-conflict spirals, and self-doubt. Through guided emotional audits, somatic tools, and nervous system regulation practices, you’ll shift from dysregulation to grounded calm. This is where healing begins.
2. The Reclamation
Reclaim your identity, voice, boundaries, and the truth of who you really are.
Here we dig into soul contracts, inner child dynamics, and belief systems that have shaped how you show up. You’ll learn how to anchor in your values, rewrite your inner narrative, and own your emotional truth without apology.
3. The Realignment
Start living in alignment with your energy, values, and intuitive wisdom.
We fine-tune your decision-making, relationships, and goals to match who you’re becoming. This phase is where things get practical — emotional intelligence meets strategy. You’ll learn to say no with power, yes with clarity, and create relationships (with yourself and others) that actually feel good.
4. The Rise
Step into your next-level life with confidence, courage, and soul-driven strategy.
This is where it all comes together. You’ll embody the version of you who leads, loves, and lives from deep alignment. We’ll map out your next chapter — whether that’s leadership, love, entrepreneurship, or peace — and you’ll walk into it with tools, boundaries, and bold self-trust.
💫 This Isn’t Just Coaching. It’s Soul Work.
My clients don’t just feel better.
They make real-life moves: ending toxic cycles, building businesses, co-parenting with strength, attracting aligned relationships, and falling back in love with themselves.
And it all starts with one conversation.
👉 Ready to Begin?
You bring the truth. I’ll bring the tools.
More is coming soon…
Group coaching, workshops, and soulful tools are on the way.
But if you’re here now, there’s a reason.
Let’s begin with what matters most: you.

The Own Your Life™ Method
You’re not here to just survive what life throws your way — you’re here to rise from it.
With the Own Your Life™ Method, you’ll gain the clarity, resilience, and emotional strategy to take your power back and lead with intention. Each session is designed to ignite your confidence, fuel your growth, and support you in becoming the woman you were always meant to be — grounded, bold, and free.
I’m Shayla, and I’m here to walk beside you.
Backed by years of study in psychology, neuroscience, and emotional intelligence — and shaped by my own journey through high-conflict divorce, rebuilding, and leadership — I bring both science and soul to this work.
If you’re ready to stop surviving and start owning your life — your way — I’m here for it.